People die. Parents die, but lovers and spouses also die. Children do.
I'm not the first or the thousandth person to point out that, as a culture, we're terrified of death, unless it is sentimentalized and prettified.
We do our very best to hide it away, but those who have watched ones whom they love die, they have more trouble pretending it doesn't really exist.
Muireadhach Albanach O Dalaigh, a 13th century bardic poet from Sligo, made this poem for his dead wife. It survives in one 16th century Scottish manuscript, the famous Book of the Dean of Lismore from Perthshire.
He was called 'Albanach' because he traveled to Scotland after quarreling with the O'Donnell king, and his descendants in the Highlands became a very important bardic family, the 'Mac Vuirichs." They were among the last in Ireland and Scotland to compose poems in the complex old style, in the early 18th century.
Muireadhach Albanach O Dalaigh, a 13th century bardic poet from Sligo, made this poem for his dead wife. It survives in one 16th century Scottish manuscript, the famous Book of the Dean of Lismore from Perthshire.
He was called 'Albanach' because he traveled to Scotland after quarreling with the O'Donnell king, and his descendants in the Highlands became a very important bardic family, the 'Mac Vuirichs." They were among the last in Ireland and Scotland to compose poems in the complex old style, in the early 18th century.
M’Anam
Do Sgar Riomsa
My soul left me last night,
a fair dear body is in the grave;
a sweet gentle bosom was taken from
us
with a single linen sheet around it.
M' anam do sgar riomsa a-raoir,
calann ghlan dob ionnsa i n-uaigh;
rugadh bruinne maordha min
is aonbhla lin uime uainn.
M' anam do sgar riomsa a-raoir,
calann ghlan dob ionnsa i n-uaigh;
rugadh bruinne maordha min
is aonbhla lin uime uainn.
A beautiful fine flower was taken
away from the weak fragile stem:
my heart’s treasure has bent down;
the fruitful branch of that house
yonder.
Do togbhadh sgath aobhdha fhionn
a-mach ar an bhfaongha bhfann;
laogh mo cridhise do chrom,
craobh throm an tighise thall.
Do togbhadh sgath aobhdha fhionn
a-mach ar an bhfaongha bhfann;
laogh mo cridhise do chrom,
craobh throm an tighise thall.
I am alone tonight, oh God;
this is an evil crooked world I see;
lovely was the weight of the young
body
that was here last night, oh King.
I mourn for that bed over there,
my pallet (unclear in manuscript)
I saw a glorious and noble form
with coiling hair lying on you, oh
bed.
I shared my bed, half and half,
with a woman whose eyes were serene;
there was no likeness, except the
flower of the hazel,
to the brown haired, womanly,
melodious shadow.
Maol Mheadha of brown eyebrows,
was my vessel of mead here with me;
the shadow that parted from me was
my very heart;
a jewel-like flower, exhausted, has
bent down.
We interrupt this to bring you a reconstructed performance of another of Muireadhach Albanach's poems. This is a small version of the traditional Irish wire-strung harp, and it plays quite quietly here, though it can be loud and ringing--very very different from gut-strung harps.
He went on pilgrimage to the Holy Land, and was therefore a 'palmer'.
My body has gone from my control,
and now belongs to her:
I am a body divided in two parts now
since the departure of the serene
lovely fair one.
She’s half my feet, half my side;
oh face like the white thorn flower,
no one was truer to her than I;
she’s half my eyes, half my hand.
The maiden like a candle is half my
body;
your judgment is bitter to me, oh
King;
I am weak in longing for her voice--
she was the true other half of my
soul.
My first love was she of the great
serene eyes,
the white teeth and ringletted hair:
her beautiful body, her side,
never lay with another man before.
We were together for twenty years,
our conversation together was
sweeter every year,
the fresh sturdy slender-fingered
branch
bore me eleven children.
Though I am here, I no longer live
since the curved nut has departed;
since our great love has been
parted,
the great world is all empty to me.
Since the day on which a rounded
post was erected
for my house, it was never said to
me--
no guest ever put a spell there,
on the dark-brown-haired
maiden.
Don’t anyone try to hush me;
it’s not forbidden for weeping be
heard;
a a full and terrible devastation
has come into my house--
the radiant brown haired warmth of
it has gone away.
He who took her away in his anger
is the King of hosts, the King of
roads;
she with winding hair had committed
no crime
that she should die so young and
leave her husband.
Dear to me the soft hand that was
here,
oh King of the bells and churches:
Och! the hand that was better than
any jewel;
I am in anguish that it is no longer
under my head.
I translate from the text in Irish Bardic Poetry, edited by Osbern Bergin, Dublin Institute for Higher Studies, reprinted 1974
The well-known caoineadh ("keen") translated below was made
by Eibhlín Dubh Ó Conaill from west Kerry, a woman of one of the few
surviving 18th-century Irish Gaelic noble families. She defied her family and
married Art Ó Laoghaire (O’Leary), another Gaelic nobleman from the wilds of
west Cork. Art had spent time among the Gaelic nobility in exile on the
continent, and when he returned to Ireland, it wasn’t long until he was in
trouble with the English authorities. He was killed by the High Sheriff of
Cork’s guards in 1773.
Only a few verses of her improvised formal lament over the body of he dead husband is translated here, from Caoineadh Airt ui Laoghaire, edited by Sean O Tuam, An Clochomhar, 1979.
A bit of the caoineadh is recited in the video below from RTE.
Caoineadh
Áirt Uí Laoghaire
You are my dear love!
The day that I saw you
in front of the market house,
my eyes were drawn to you,
my heart delighted in you,
I ran away from my kin,
far from home with you.
Mo ghra go daingean tu!
La da bhfaca thu
ag ceann ti an mharagaidh
Thug mi shuil aire dhuit,
thug mo chroi taitneamh dhuit.
Déalaios o'm charaid leat,
i bhfad o bhaile leat.
You are my dear love!
I recall well in my mind
that fine spring day;
a hat suited you well
with golden bands,
a silver-hilted sword,
a brave right hand,
a formidable hero,
a man who’d strike fear
into treacherous enemies.
You were ready to ride
on a slender white-headed horse.
The English would bow before you,
down to the ground,
and not out of fondness for you,
but in utter terror of you,
though it was they that killed you,
my soul’s beloved.
Mo chara go daingean thu!
Is cuimhin le'm aigne
an la brea earraigh ud,
gur bhrea thiodh hata dhuit,
faoi bhanda oir tarraingthe,
laoimh cinn airgid,
lamh dheas chalma,
rompsail bhagartach,
fir-chritheagla
ar namhaid chealgach,
Tu i gcoir chun falaracht,
a's each caol ceannann fut....
Mo chara go daingean thu!
Is cuimhin le'm aigne
an la brea earraigh ud,
gur bhrea thiodh hata dhuit,
faoi bhanda oir tarraingthe,
laoimh cinn airgid,
lamh dheas chalma,
rompsail bhagartach,
fir-chritheagla
ar namhaid chealgach,
Tu i gcoir chun falaracht,
a's each caol ceannann fut....
You are my dear love!
I never believed you were dead
until your horse came to me
his reins dragging the ground,
your heart’s blood on his side
and on your fine saddle,
where you used to sit and stand.
I made a leap to the threshold,
a second leap to the gate,
a third leap up to your horse.
I struck my hands together
and took off running
as fast as was in me,
until I saw you dead in front of me
next to a little furze bush,
with no Pope or bishop,
with no clerk or priest
who would read a psalm over you,
no one but a withered old woman
who’d spread a corner of her cloak
over you--
your blood was flowing in streams
and I didn’t stop to clean it,
I drank it up in my hands.
You are my dear love!
Stand up now
and come back home with me,
so that I can get a beef slaughtered
for you,
so that I can gather a great
company,
so that we’ll set music dancing,
so that I can prepare a bed for you,
with bright sheets,
with fine multicolored quilts
that will bring a sweat from you,
in place of the cold that’s come
upon you.
It will be my everlasting bitter
sorrow
that I wasn’t beside you
when the bullet was shot at you,
so I could take it in my right side
or at the top of my shirt,
and I’d have thrown hundred spears for you,
smooth-palmed horseman.
You are my love and my dear!
Your corn stacks are made up.
your cows are being milked;
there’s a sorrow in my heart
that all Munster can’t cure,
nor all the smiths of Ireland.
Until Art Ó Laoghaire comes to me,
my sorrow will never diminish,
pressing me in the center of my
heart
shut up firmly inside me,
like a lock on a trunk
for which the key has been lost.
-Eibhlin Dhubh Ní Chonaill
A caoineadh from
Scotland. Seathan probably died several
centuries before Art Ó Laoghaire, and this piece exists in several versions in folk tradition. Only portions are
translated here, translated from Carmina Gadelica, Volume V, edited by Alexander Carmichael, Scottish Academic Press, 1987.
The version in Carmina Gadelica is very long and probably spurious in parts, though not the parts I translate here. Why spurious? Carmichael (from Lismore island) and his collaborator, Kenneth MacLeod from the isle of Eigg wanted make available to the English and Gaelic reading publics, songs, traditional prayers, incantations and charms that would have the same effect when read that the shorter oral versions had had on them when heard. So they added and splendified and convoluted in places.
Interestingly, 'Seathan' is the old Ulster version of the name Sean. Remember Shane O'Neill in
the 16th century? (Shane is what the English called him, but it reflects Irish 'Seathan.')
Cuil Ao (where the choir in the video below is from) isn't that far from where Art O Laoire was killed.
Seathan
Oh Seathan, Seathan, you are
lifeless,
true son of my king from Tír Chonaill.
It's often I lay beneath your plaid;
if I did, it wasn’t at home,
but in a green hollow of a wooded
field,
under the flanks of the jagged blue
mountains,
the wind of the mountains sweeping
over us,
the wind from the glen calling out,
taking
it's fill of the freshness of
spring.
It's many a glen and summit that we
traveled,
I was in Ile with you, I was in
Uibhist with you...
I was in Cill Donnain of the pines
with you,
I was three years in the hills with
you.
I watched out for a day in the tops
of the trees with you,
I spent a time in the sea-wrack with
you,
I watched out a night on an ocean
rock;
I did, my love, and I don’t regret
it,
I was in the fold of your plaid,
the sea spray ceaselessly flying
over us,
the pure freezing healthy water of
spring.
My love is Seathan of the quiet
eyes,
I’d lie with you on a rough bed,
on a bed of heather, my side on the
rocks;
dearer was Seathan lying on a coil
of heather rope
than the son of a king on a bed of
linen;
dearer was Seathan under the
boundary dike,
than a king’s son in silk on a
wooden floor,
though his bed was pleasant,
having been planed by the wrights,
having been bespelled by the druids;
dearer was Seathan in the branchy
wood
than to be in Magh Meall with
Airril,
even with satin and silk under his
feet,
pillows shining with red gold...
But Seathan tonight is in the upper
village;
Neither gold nor tears can bring him
back,
neither drink nor music can disturb
him,
neither battle nor force can bring
him back from his fate,
neither clamor nor struggle can wake
him from his sleep;
my heart is broken and battered
my tears run like a well,
I sleep restlessly on a pillow,
and you’ve no one to lament for you,
but me, running to your body, away,
and to you again.
Seathan, my brightness of the sun,
despite all I could do, death took
you,
and left me behind miserable and
weeping,
desperately yearning after you;
and if it's true, what the clergy
say,
that there’s a Hell and a Heaven,
I’d give my own share of Heaven
(here’s a welcome to death)
for one night together with my
beloved,
together with my mate, lovely
Seathan.
Gormlaith, in the poem below, was a
historical 10th-century Irish queen. A number of poems lamenting the death of
her husband, the famous king Niall Glúndub, have been attributed to her. This one is also translated from Irish Bardic Poetry, Bergin.
Gormlaith
Move your foot away, monk;
move it away from Niall’s side;
you throw the earth down too
heavily,
onto him with whom I used to lie.
Bheir, a mhanaigh, leat an chois,
toccaibh anos do thaobh Neill;
as rothrom chuireas tu an chre,
ar an te re luighim feain.
Bheir, a mhanaigh, leat an chois,
toccaibh anos do thaobh Neill;
as rothrom chuireas tu an chre,
ar an te re luighim feain.
You are too long at it, monk,
piling earth on top of glorious
Niall;
Time is long to me, with him in a
brown coffin,
where his feet don’t reach the
board.
Against my will that he’s laid under
a cross,
the son of Aodh Finnleith who held
feasts;
set the flagstone down on his bed;
move your foot away, monk.
As I am now, Deirdre once was,
after the glorious sons of
Uisneach--
her heart swelled up in her breast;
move your foot away, monk.
I am Gormlaith, she who makes poems,
noble daughter of Flann from Dun
Rois;
alas that the flagstone does not
cover me too;
move your foot away, monk.
Two cheerful little Welsh penillion to finish. They are individual traditional verses dating from anywhere from the 16th through 18th centuries. The best collection is still Hen Benillion, edited by Parry-Williams, and that's where I have translated these from.
Until the end of the 18th century, they were very common in at least northwest Wales. The description below is from Edward Jones' "Musical and Poetical Relicks of the Welsh Bards", based on the description in Thomas Pennant's ""Journey to Snowdon", 1781.
"Numbers of persons of both sexes assemble and sit around the Harp, singing alternately Pennillion, or stanzas, of ancient or modern composition...The young people usually begin the night with dancing; and, when they are tired, assume this species of relaxation. They alternately sing, dance, and drink...Often, like the modern Improvisatori of Italy, they sing extempore verses...Many have their memories stored with several hundreds, perhaps thousands, of Pennillion, some of which they have always ready for answers to every subject that can be proposed; or, if their recollection should ever fail them, they have invention to compose something pertinent and proper for the occasion. The subjects afford a great deal of mirth: some of these are jocular, others satirical, but most of them amorous...They continue singing without intermission, never repeating the same stanza, (for, that would forfeit the honour of being held first of the song,) and, like nightingales, support the contest through the night."
They are still sung in concert today, though very stuffily to a piano-like harp accompaniment. Similar stanzas were sung into the 1970s in the folk tradition in remote parts of Brittany.
Until the end of the 18th century, they were very common in at least northwest Wales. The description below is from Edward Jones' "Musical and Poetical Relicks of the Welsh Bards", based on the description in Thomas Pennant's ""Journey to Snowdon", 1781.
"Numbers of persons of both sexes assemble and sit around the Harp, singing alternately Pennillion, or stanzas, of ancient or modern composition...The young people usually begin the night with dancing; and, when they are tired, assume this species of relaxation. They alternately sing, dance, and drink...Often, like the modern Improvisatori of Italy, they sing extempore verses...Many have their memories stored with several hundreds, perhaps thousands, of Pennillion, some of which they have always ready for answers to every subject that can be proposed; or, if their recollection should ever fail them, they have invention to compose something pertinent and proper for the occasion. The subjects afford a great deal of mirth: some of these are jocular, others satirical, but most of them amorous...They continue singing without intermission, never repeating the same stanza, (for, that would forfeit the honour of being held first of the song,) and, like nightingales, support the contest through the night."
They are still sung in concert today, though very stuffily to a piano-like harp accompaniment. Similar stanzas were sung into the 1970s in the folk tradition in remote parts of Brittany.
I will
not go to my bed tonight;
the one whom I love is not in it.
I will go and lie down on a rock.
Break now, if you will, my dear
little heart.
My
heart is as heavy as a ball of lead
through love of a young man: I will
not name him.
Since I said farewell to that
dearest boy,
all food and drink tastes like
wormwood to me.
But never mind.
Here's Jim Donohue, a whistle player like you've never heard before, as Tony MacMahon says. He was from Ballaghadereen, northwest Roscommon, which not so long ago spoke a very very interesting Irish dialect that combined more or less "Munster" word stress with a vocabulary that begins to show signs of Ulster.
But never mind.
Here's Jim Donohue, a whistle player like you've never heard before, as Tony MacMahon says. He was from Ballaghadereen, northwest Roscommon, which not so long ago spoke a very very interesting Irish dialect that combined more or less "Munster" word stress with a vocabulary that begins to show signs of Ulster.




